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Father's Day is a day of celebration. A chance for dads to unwind, get a few props, and maybe a card and a few gifts if they're lucky. It's a day to celebrate the family you've made and the love you share together.
But, it's also a chance for self-reflection. Being a father is one of the most important jobs a man can have in his life, and just like any other job, it's good to check in once and awhile and evaluate how you're doing. Father's Day is a great opportunity to ask yourself a few simple questions about yourself, how you're raising your children, and how they see you.
Am I sharing the right values with my children?
Are you raising your kids to hold the right priorities in life? To value their walk with Christ and personal relationship with the Lord and Savior as their number one prerogative? This can be trickier than it sounds. It's one thing to tell your kids it should be their main focus in life, to take them to church and go through the motions of living upright in the Lord. But when they look at you, what do they see you doing? Do they see you walking that talk? Or are you chasing other goals, prioritizing more worldly matters? It doesn't matter what age your children are, they'll always pick up on what you do more than what you say. This Father's Day, take a minute to make sure the Lord and Savior is your focus in life.
Am I raising my children to treat others with respect, kindness, and understanding?
Your children will grow up to treat people the way you treat them. The bond between a child and their dad is one of the strongest bonds there is, and even when it doesn't seem like it, children take their cues from their parents. If you're attentive, understanding, and fair with your children, you'll raise kids who will go on to be attentive, understanding, and fair with their partners, their friends, and their own children. Always remember that you set the tone for all the relationships they have to come in life – make sure you're setting a good one.
Am I showing my children that we can make a difference in the world?
As fathers, it's our responsibility to give our children the confidence and motivation to make a better world. To be involved in the community and the world at large, to take on challenges and obstacles even when they seem insurmountable. We need to lead by example and show our children that we don't have to accept injustices, disparity, and suffering as "normal” or "unavoidable.” To show them that taking a stand, getting involved, and doing your part can make a huge difference in the world.
The mug on your desk might already read "World's Best Dad” but we know it's a job that never ends. This Father's Day, take a moment to reflect on these questions and make sure you're providing the best possible guidance for your kids and standing as the finest example you can.
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